Hi, I hope everyone is enjoying their Tuesday! One of my favorite things to talk about is the REAL stuff. Where things get deep and the things that we might all be scared or hesitant to talk about. The thing is, it shouldn't be scary. We all deserve to say how we feel and we have the right to express that, which is amazing.
So, what I want to talk about today is, living our lives for ourselves and living our lives to make us happy. A lot of the times we forget about us. We forget hey, what makes me happy? Our minds are always screaming what will this person think, or I can't do this because of this person. Can we stop that? Please.. I learned this last year we CANNOT please everyone and we can't live our lives for everybody else. My life has ran smoother and I've been happier than I've ever been for the sure fact that I choose to live my life for me, and I don't second guess what everyone else will think. If I'm doing the right thing, and thanking God everyday, living life for Him first and me second then I am happy. This isn't to say that we don't have families that we have to think about and that is always a priority, but I'm talking about when it comes down to the end of the day, I want to lay my head down on my pillow at night and know I did my best and that my day was great because I lived it for me, and I did what made me happy. We can still make our families happy, and our friends, and our loved ones but the biggest lesson is to NOT forget about yourself. Always try to do something for you, no matter what it is. This is cliche and way over said, but we only live once. We don't want to have regrets or have what if's. I think everyone would agree or so I'd hope, that we all deserve happiness and to do things for us that we love that will make us happy. So, if you read my last REAL post from last week. Set a goal for yourself to remember to do things for you that will make your heart happy, and don't get caught up in what everyone thinks. Make lists or start journaling, writing things down helps a lot for me. Do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. Things run a lot smoother when you, yourself are happy. Remember that. We want to be our best selves for us and for the people we love.
Thank you for reading!! I'll be back again next week with another REAL post. I hope you enjoyed and took something from this post. More fashion and beauty and skincare posts to come too! Have a good week. Don't forget to subscribe on my About Me page!